Signs of abuse
There are many things to look out for if you are worried that someone is being abused.
You may become concerned that someone is being abused in a number of ways:
- the person may tell you
- the person may say something that worries you
- you may see something - an incident or an injury or other sign
You might see and/or hear:
- someone being bullied or intimidated
- someone being made to feel frightened or unhappy
- someone in a situation of unnecessary risk
The person or somebody else might say something that makes you concerned, for example:
- a colleague
- family member
- member of the public
There might be physical signs or unexplained or unusual injuries:
- bruises
- slap marks
- black eyes
- bleeding
- burns or scalding
- cigarette marks
- torn, stained or blood stained clothes
There may be other signs, such as:
- inappropriate, dirty or soiled clothes
- no food or drink available for the person
- bills not being paid or services (for example, the telephone might be cut off)
- shortage of money
The person might say things or behave in a way that causes you concern:
- the person may seem unhappy or distressed
- the person may appear frightened, anxious or agitated without an obvious cause, or in relation to certain people
- sleeping problems
- constant visits to the toilet without a medical reason
- other unexplained changes in how the person behaves
The behaviour of a colleague or other person may make you concerned. For example, they might:
- be dismissive or have an intolerant attitude
- be task/routine orientated rather than person focused
- not be a team player - they might insist on doing tasks on their own or in their way, or secretive about contact with clients
- overstep professional boundaries with clients and colleagues, or be over friendly, or they might neglect professional development
You may not know. It is enough that you are worried. Find out how to report a concern here.
Here is a video about Hidden Harms, focusing on domestic abuse and older people.
